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We've all heard about various stages children go through---mostly "The
Terrible Two's". We know about the "seven-year itch" and that the body
changes completely every seven years. A knowledge of these cycles helps to understand why children
react and respond the way they do and gives invaluable insight into the most
loving way to bring up a child.
Actually, children grow down instead of up. The head is almost fully formed at birth and the mind is functioning immediately. Babies can communicate through crying and laughing but have little or no control over their limbs or bodies, all of which twitch and jerk in constant motion. Soon they discover their fingers and move them in fascination in front of their eyes. Then they reach for objects. The body's movement become more purposeful and less spontaneous. Then the legs become stronger and the baby can kneel, stand, crawl and finally walk. He has grown down from head to toes!
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It is at this time that morals and virtues are established as they imitate
what they are exposed
to. Children under the age of 6 or 7 don't think of themselves as "I" yet.
They're still imitating
others and learning from them.
He's developing his senses and begins to externalize his spiritual qualities
showing his love for
color and music. He loves to paint, he loves to dance to music, he loves to
be jiggled on
Daddy's knee. Most of all, he loves to laugh and experience life every day.
The arts -- painting,
music, crafts, dramatics, puppetry, dance -- all are activities and tools for growth that allow a
child to express himself creatively.
7-14 He's learning to concentrate and understands the difference between memory
training and
thinking, between objective events and their subjective causes. He's learning the law of cause
and effect.
After the age of seven, the developed concentration will have stimulated and
activated his
intuition. By this time, he's in school and if he's fortunate to have a
teacher who understands
the stages of childhood, he'll retain everything he's learned consciously
or subconsciously.
The teacher should allow the child to answer his own questions as much as
possible. She
should plant seeds of knowledge and allow it to grow in the child's mind
until it blossoms forth
with the right answer. And it will be his, not the teachers, not another
student's, not from a
book. Anything learned in this way is not forgotten.
The first years of school should be an atmosphere where the child feels
free
to express himself,
and be treated courteously as he is expected to treat his teacher and peers.
If the teacher has patience, the child will see that obstacles are not
failures, only a temporary
impediment. Although the teacher must be flexible with her students, she
still must maintain
discipline. This is important, aside for the obvious reasons, to instill
cooperation and a sense
of responsibility as well as the necessity to listen and concentrate.
14-21 This has been, by necessity, a very brief and abbreviated description of the
spiritual forces at
work in the young child. There is nothing more rewarding for an adult than
to be able to
observe a child from birth to puberty and not only see, but understand, the
stages he is
experiencing.
It's the fortunate child who has parents and teachers who are knowledgeable
and aware of the
spirited child who sits before them.
For more information about the spiritual development of children, choose
from Rudolf Steiner's
vast selection of articles and books on education.
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